Help a Friend : IT'S ABUSE - A Campus Initiative to Help Stop Relationship Abuse

A campus initiative sponsored by the Columbus Coalition Against Family Violence and The Ohio State University

Help a Friend

Three-quarters of OSU students report knowing someone who’s been in an abusive relationship. What can you do if you suspect abuse of a friend?

How to recognize abuse:

Abuse can be physical, but it can also be verbal or emotional.

Humiliation, ridicule, put-downs

Extreme jealousy

Isolation from friends

Harassing phone calls, text messages, e-mails, notes on cars

Signs of continuous distress, anxiety, or crying

Making excuses about a partners’ stress or anger

How to help a friend:

Plan your talk – what, when and where.
Listen – don’t judge.
Don’t say, “Just get out.” It’s not safe advice.
Let the victim know that verbal, emotional or physical abuse in any relationship is never OK.
Have your friend call 614.223.1111 or visit www.ItsAbuse.com for confidential, anonymous help.